Showing posts with label Love. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Love. Show all posts

Saturday, January 16, 2010

This Little Thing Called Love

My parents do not own a computer. I have friends
that do not own a cell phone. I have not read any
of the Vampire books yet and I love to read.
Many of my friends have never been to see a play.
I am not in love with my car. My fiancée' puts up
with but is not a fan of Face Book. My second wife
does not eat red meat. I have friends who are
sports enthusiasts. I have friends who love to go
camping and take cruise line trips. So what is my
point in all this trivia? Our world and your world
is made up of various friends, relatives, and work
associates that are different. Their world is made
up of different lifestyles and varied living
conditions than you and I. They have different wants
and needs and even though we are all different , we
all have the same thing in common. We love what we
love. We love face book, or we love our car, or we
love the computer. Most of the world has something
that they really do love tremendously. Some want to
share that love with others, while some keep their
love of things to themselves. My point in all of this
rambling is to remind you that even though we are all
different and even though we all go off into other
directions, based on our love of sports, travel, or
upbringing, we are all in this world as human beings
who should love and care for one another. It is
really not hard to love a stranger. We have all shed
a tear for fellow human beings in trouble. Look at
9/11 or the catastrophe in Haiti last month. We do
not know these people but this could have been us
or you can relate to the problems that they are having
and thank God this was not your family or you.
We feel the kindred spirit and that in itself is a
form of love for your fellow man. I just want you to
realize the importance of caring for others, and
loving one another. I am not a peace freak even though
I abhor war, and I just want you to take time in your
daily lives to remember the people around you
that you love and care for and sometimes say a little
prayer for those you do not know but may need
your help or a loving thought thrown their way.
I guess that I am feeling a little melancholy about
some of my relatives who I loved and miss, especially
around this February month of love during Valentine.
Love your neighbor. Love your friends and relatives.
And most importantly love yourself. You are
special and you make a difference in the world.
Remember we all are loved. We need to give love.
We need to share love. We need to live love.

Thursday, October 15, 2009

Doomsday Prediction

DOOMSDAY PREDICTION 2012 by Larry Oldham October 2009

There is no doubt among the Apocalypse scholars that the world

will end December 21, 2012.

You can read about it at Wikipedia.com. You can view

the video on YouTube.com called “The End”,

This video has been viewed by over 8 million viewers and

over sixty-two thousand comments have

been left on the site. Most of this revelation stems

from the fact that the Mayan calendar will end so the

Mayans decided if their calendar ended so did the world

end. Actually I believe that they predicted a

new era of enlightenment, not a doomsday prophecy.

Some people just carried it a little to the

extreme. We also have Planet X (also known ad Nibiru)

that is headed toward the earth at great speed

but according to Universetoday.com this is not true either.

According to the Bible, Mathews 24:36, no

one knows the end time except God. Most people tend to

go with this version of the end of the earth.

Just in case we are all wrong led me to think about doing

some things that I have always wanted to do,

but just didn't have the time. Think about it. If you

knew the world was coming to an end in three years

your time would become extremely important and valuable.

All the things that you had been putting

off would now become a reality to you with a set deadline.

Travel, new home, new vehicle, more

excitement in your life, no more need to save for retirement,

your whole social and emotional state

of mind would be extracted and filled with new sources

of enlightenment about your future.

What would you do tomorrow? Who is the first person

you would call today? How much would your

life and lifestyle change? Would you continue your normal

routine for the next three years, waiting for

the end to come? Please don't take any of this literally

because I really don't think we as humans know

the time or the day that the earth will end or even

if the world will end.

It makes you think though! We are not promised tomorrow.

A word of advice would be live everyday

as if it might be your last. Be kind to everyone.

Tell those special people in your life how much they

mean to you, how much you love them, and how much

happiness they have brought into your life.

If the world does end in 2012 , you will be ready

and all your friends will know how much you loved

them.

See you December 22, 2012.

Wednesday, May 13, 2009

Mothers

Lifestyle -May 2009 Showcase Magazine

Mothers by Larry Oldham

Mother's Day is this month ,and although

we know about a Mother's love,

sometimes we take it for granted. Mothers

live for their children. Mother's

sacrifice for their children , and Mother's

have a undying love for their children.

My Mother read the bible to me and my sister

nightly. Mother's who read to their children not

only love their children but want to teach their

children to love. This is a time when we ususually

bring a gift to our mother. No gift can match the gift

she has given to us...life itself. We never forget

our Mother's.

It would be impossible to live life, either good or bad,

without acknowledging the love of our mother. You are

always sure of your mother's love. A mother's

challenge is to love her children, while helping

the child to grow away from her and to become fully

independent. What challenge do we face today that is

harder than this challenge of our mother?

Someone once said “ A man loves his sweetheart the most,

his wife the best, and his mother the longest”.

A mother's love is in your heart forever. We are what

our mother's made us. A child is just a child to a mother ,

no matter what age the child reaches. When my mother felt

cold , I wore a coat. Even as an adult she still asks,

“Where is your coat, you will freeze to death.” A mother's

hopes and dreams are never forgotten for her children ,

no matter what their age. If you don't reach the top and

you don't reach her dreams or your dreams, you are still a

mother's child, who loves you with all her heart. You can

always be sure of your mother's love and your mother's arms

are always open when you need a hug. Reach out and hug

your mother today. To the world,you might be one person,

but to your mother you are her whole world and love is a free gift.

Saturday, February 7, 2009

Defining Love Today

Defining Love Today

by Larry Oldham 2009

The most precious gift that God has given us is Love.
There are many forms of Love. There are many
kinds of Love. What we need to do today is very
simple. We need to define Love. We all know about
Love. We have heard Love defined by many poets,
playwrights, screenwriters, family members, former
lovers, and friends. Love is very subjective and
everyone has their own different ideas about what
Love is and what Love means.

Once you have defined love in your own mind, the next
step is to find someone to interpret a definition that
you can share with people everyday. Love is not easy.
Love is hard. The biggest problem with love is that
you can't always control it. Love controls us. You can
pick your partner. You can talk to your partner about
what love means. You can hope and pray that your partner
is always on the same track, or at least the two of you
start off on the same track that you want to share.
We have all been in love. We can all share our
stories and our feelings about what love has meant
to us both good and bad. You want to define love
as you see it, you want to find someone you can love,
and your main purpose is to find a way to stay in
love forever.

If you ask every bride how long she is going to stay
married one minute before she walks down the aisle, I
guarantee you that 99.9% will say forever. Not many
brides get married with the idea of an ending date
unless they have another agenda or ulterior motive.

Love begins with finding the right partner. You can
ask everyone you know, who the perfect partner is
and you will get as many definitions as the number
of people that you ask. Finding the perfect partner
is a task that fits only the criteria that you define.
Love comes in many packages, and all the people that
I know who are in love, knew by natural instinct,
that they had found the right person to love.

Sometimes our instincts prove to be wrong, as we see
by all the divorces in the world; however, in the
beginning, with a new person whom we fall in love
with, expectations of a longtime commitment and
being in love forever are readily accepted.

How do we make love last?

Philosophers have studied this question for years.

Is there a generally accepted answer globally?
Not that I am aware of.
So we are left with our own interpretation of our
own love relationship. Those people who make good
choices, work hard to please their partner and
commit to making love last, normally succeed.
Of course it takes two people willing to follow
this same course, and therein lies the problem:

Finding the right partner with the same commitment.
Finding someone who defines love the same as
you do.

The main goal is to find someone who makes you happy,
someone who makes you laugh and shares the same joys
of life that you do. Remember, you are talking about
a lifetime to be shared with this person, so choose
a person whom you can be in love with for the rest
of your life, plus a person who can always be your
best friend, in spite of the fact that you are both
totally in love.

Once the perfect partner is found, the goal for both
of you is to make the love you share last for a lifetime.